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[echo]

last thread

http://rrr.kimcm.dk/forum/viewtopic.php?t=6486

I do have to say that even through all the miscommunication and the long road ahead of us I do love my husband and I still believe that our foundation is strong, we just have to reinforce the structure.
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It's not who you are that holds you back, it's who you think you're not.
— Anonymous

Let us not look back in anger or forward in fear, but around in awareness.
— James Thurber

When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves.
— Victor Frankl

[Miss Kate]

Ok I'm in a weird mood due to my tension headache....but....

Thread titles.....inspiration coming from song titles or lyrics......

"Always look on the bright side of life"

"The long and winding road"

"No more the fool"

"Rah rah ah-ah-ah!"

“You can turn off the sun, but I'm still gonna shine.”

"I am smart and I am happy"

"Don't stop believing...."

Laters
Kate.x

PS: It takes two to have an argument....I'm proud of you for not arguing or yelling back....his emotions are his to deal with....

[echo]

Hi

The title of my thread is sorta a song title. There is an old Elton John song called this song has no title.

Anyway....When he was not here the kids and I worked very hard on the schedule and rules etc. they were miserable but we had meetings and talked and the 3 of us knew we can say anything.

Now they do not talk they yell in frustration, NONE of us tell D how we feel and keep distant if we tell him about things that happen. My guess is his judgment.

He bickers with them and argues little dumb points and they both have become very conditioned to do this.

The other day I told him he needed to back off the kids, and as much as I know Ivy would yell at me, I told him I did not condone his behavior with them and that I will be handling the displine until he is able to understand what the goals are. Sometimes you need to walk away from an argument with a 10 year old. Especially when it is irreivant. D has really been lashing out at S and sometimes L in his fristration.

He tells me he no longer sees the dumb councilor he had, I sent him the name of someone I have researched I am not sure if he has called yet.

He needs help. He just came in and drilled 7 questions at me in a row, I asked why he is asking soo manhy questions, he said he was trying to have a conversation.......last time I looked drilling questions wasn't a conversation but I played along. If I can help him I will but I will not put up with the abusive aspects of this relationship anymore.

The kids are happier in ways with him here and unhappier in other ways. No one feels emotionally secure. Well I do in that I know I will always be OK.

He does go off in front of the kids, mainly because they are always here. It is pretty hard to avoid my kids.

I mean I know I am not perfect and neither are my kids, but we do try and when we fail we admit it and move forward. He just plays the same tapes over and over and over.

On top of this depression of not working or trying to find a job....... It drains me.

Now about me, I am run down but still feeling soo positive about my desire to leave my job and work at the school I have talked about. Soo many positives even when it comes to organization and boundries etc. Keeping my fingers crossed some more......hopefully hear something soon. I have no idea how long it takes to turn around a cori and other background check information.

Hahahahaha I love the Jerry Spinger idea!!!!!
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It's not who you are that holds you back, it's who you think you're not.
— Anonymous

Let us not look back in anger or forward in fear, but around in awareness.
— James Thurber

When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves.
— Victor Frankl

[Miss Kate]

[echo]

Not sure why that song popped into my head but I love it. We used to sit up in my uncles's room when we were kids and listen to "goodbye yellow brick road over" and over an over. He was soo cool to us then.

Thanks for helping me work through my thoughts and feelings, you are soo good at it.
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It's not who you are that holds you back, it's who you think you're not.
— Anonymous

Let us not look back in anger or forward in fear, but around in awareness.
— James Thurber

When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves.
— Victor Frankl

[echo]

I got the job......I got the job........I got the job.......I got the job!!!!!!!!!!

This has made D a bit upset and he hasn't yet gotten a job but like he says, the result of his job search is equivalent to the effort put in!

I will not be rich, but I know I am going to be happy!!!!!!!
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It's not who you are that holds you back, it's who you think you're not.
— Anonymous

Let us not look back in anger or forward in fear, but around in awareness.
— James Thurber

When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves.
— Victor Frankl

[dragonflysoul]

[sld]

Yea! Echo!!

do a little dance... woo hoo!

Sherri
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“Never fear letting go....it is the kindest thing most loving thing you can do." Royce

Change your thoughts and you change your world.
~Norman Vincent Peale (1898 - 1993)

Most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be.
~Abraham Lincoln (1809 - 1865)

[icats]

Awesome!! Congratulations!



Staci
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[Miss Kate]

Wonderful news....congratulations!!!!!!!!!!
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According to Echo it's "none of what they say, 1/2 of what they do" <--purely for me to remember LOL!!!!

"There will be no silver lining without a dark cloud, nor will there ever be a rainbow without a spell of rain." - Rashida Khilawala.

“You can't undo anything you've already done, but you can face up to it. You can tell the truth. You can seek forgiveness. And then let God do the rest.”

[Metroman]

AWESOMEEEEE!!! I thought that it what you were talking about on FB!!!!
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[thatgirl]

Hi Echo!! Congratulations on your new job! I'm getting caught up with everything..I've missed your posts.